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Once Upon A Child, You Were So Happy! Unlock! How To Be Again

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Do you still remember the days once upon a child your life was awesome? So! Now What has changed that you are unable to live the same life in that beautiful way?

In this post, you will find those points which are stopping you to be happy again, and once you understand! You can start again live happily and enjoy your beautiful life as you were living once upon a child.

Once Upon A Child Stories:

Here are some of the lovely stories which you have done Once Upon A Child. See you still remember some of these stories?

Fun Was Only Aim:

In your childhood days, there is only 1 thing where you used to focus on top-most and that was “fun”. You were trying your best to get the fun. The fun is all about finding happiness in small things like – playing with other children, laughing, meetings with friends, etc

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What is changed now? Do you still try to get fun once in a while?

Why not? Yes! This totally understood you have some responsibilities now OR you are all caught up in this life race.

But! Still, it is not that difficult to be happy & get connected once in a while. In fact! It is pretty easy. Okay! Tell How difficult is it to connect with your friend once in a while if not regular?

Do you find it impossible to connect with your loved ones? Let say! you want to play your favorite sports – Cricket, football, etc. Is it really impossible to play on a weekly, fortnight(15 days), or on a monthly basis?

Don’t Be A Robot:

Ask yourself, you will get the answer! Why have you become a robot? Don’t say! You don’t know about me & I can’t take breaks for fun My goals are beyond your understanding. Yes! I agree you definitely have some good goals to achieve. The point is to take some breaks won’t going to affect you.

You don’t take breaks and There is no fun and it also makes you frustrated quite often. Try to get some fun of your choice whether- playing sports, meet with a friend, connect with your loved ones etc

Trust me on this! It will make you feel good and will help you to release stress from your mind.

Enjoyment In Small Things:

There was no high demand as you were an expert in getting happiness at small things. As the time has passed, Now! Your expectations have reached the top of the sky. How many times you have listened to this? “High expectations lead to frustration”

Take proper actions and don’t expect high. Still, you don’t follow this rule.

Do you remember! You used to be so happy when you got 1 or 2 buck or few bucks OR some special dishes to eat. You used to be so happy as there is no other person present around the world who is happier than you?

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Where is that happiness gone? At present, Why don’t you try to find happiness in small things? Because! You have started doing comparison with others. Comparision is the biggest reason for killing of the happiness.

In childhood days, you were not doing comparisons with others. So! You were in peace and also happy. The secret to happiness is – Don’t compare yourself with others, Don’t expect high, and try to find happiness in small things.

Take Your Bonus:

Believe me! If you make this small change, your happiness mode would become active and you will start finding happiness from everywhere. What else?

Here is the BONUS gift- You will see that your work potential has also improved a lot as a result of being happy and your mood is refreshed, Now! you have started finding positivity and there is no frustration anymore.

Live In The Present:

You always keep jumping from past to future, and then back to past from the future. In this game, “present” keeps on missing.

Sometimes you get drown in the past regret for the mistakes & decision which you have taken at those times?

Okay! Tell me, Is there any way to change those decisions, mistakes, or experiences? You don’t have any time machine. Right? So, what’s the point of think or getting upset about those memories?

This has happened and there is no chance you can change it. Move your focus on good things! Let’s look at another side, You have become the same person which you are today from all those decisions and mistakes.

You Need To Think Again:

Okay! Think, Could you have get such knowledge, intellectual and maturity without those experiences which you are having today?

Probably not! Now, You can use this intellectual, maturity and experience for future goals and to find the solutions. It will boost up your performance. That’s a good news!

At other times, you are also kicking yourself in the pool of future anxiety, fantasy. What will happen ? If not then what? Is it possible? Would I be able to ?

You have often come across these phrases pretty much which keep running on your mind like background noise.

These noises come only when you try to swim in the future pool of worry. Is it necessary to do overthinking on a regular basis? Don’t you know overthinking kills your happiness?

Now! Tell me who is responsible to rob your happiness? Obviously! You are the only person who is kicking yourself in the overthinking zone oftentimes.

Do you remember once upon a child when you were having a lot of worries? Would I be able to play tomorrow, next week, or next month? Obviously not! You were not doing overthinking and building long plans. You were only focused on the present.

Now! You have changed and started playing another game. In this game from past to future, The present get missed where you are actually living and where you need to be focused most.

Try to practice living in the present moments. If you become honest with your present and give your best. Obviously! future results would be wonderful.

TIP– The key of future is behind your present actions!

Free From Worries:

You have trapped yourself in a worries at a great scale without even realizing it. I will show you bit of pieces from the picture.

Worry No.1

You are active on social media—Facebook, Instagram, etc Your friend having more followers than you. Although you are the champion and not your friend. He is a simple guy. How can you tolerate, a friend is having more followers than you?.

Now! It has become your duty to be more active and post or upload images on a regular basis.

Worry No.2

Feeling demotivated and lying on the bed. Want to get some motivation? You have across some videos of motivational gurus and started watching them.

Sorry to say! but these videos won’t help you much. Don’t try to find motivation from outside sources! It is just a temporary thing which becomes invisible within some hours or even within a couple of minutes.

The real motivation comes from within yourself only.

After watching these videos, you have become more panicked and upset and felt like a loser. As you saw the person who is more successful than you is talking in the video.

No! You are not looser, The only difference is of the time. You have also the same potential even more than others. That’s why! Don’t compare yourself with anyone else, it takes all your motivation and energy and throws you into the demotivating zone.

Worry No.3

So! many notifications are pending on your smartphone (Which is not smart in reality and makes you dumb) on WhatsApp, Facebook, and Instagram. Also, There are many new stories to check. You also need to reply to a person who has commented on your post last day or 2,3 days ago and your reply is still incomplete.

There are hundreds of emails pending, How can you stop yourself without checking. After all, this is your smartphone ( Which is not smart)

Huh! This is so many work you do on daily basis. You are pretty much hardworking.

These are only a few examples and it goes on and on and on. You have hit yourself in countless worries which are not even worth – Internet, social media, other distractions.

In childhood days, You were all away from these stupid worries. Do you want to kick away all these types of irrelevant worries and want to be relax and energetic?

Alright! That’s good news. The most interesting thing is to know that this doesn’t even require much effort. It is the most simple thing which can be done easily, You can make a great change within 45 Days From Today or even less.

Keep things too simple and reduce all those distractions which do not add any value in your life and stopping you from being happy and to make the progress.

Do you truly need Facebook on a regular basis? If not limit the usage or deactivate it and take a break. Why are you active on Instagram? For looking at other people pictures who are doing party or fun and making you feel jealous?

I think you don’t need Instagram! But, still Instagram notifications disturbed you and that’s how your landing happens to Instagram. Once you landed you will definitely spend a couple of minutes over there.

If you truly need Instagram, Then stop using it too much. Limit your usage. If that is not required then uninstall the app.

This will not delete your account, It is still there. Try and check this for few days. If you still find the need to check Instagram and can’t tolerate without it. You can download it again. It’s all free.

You need whatsapp ? Okay! Keep it. I think this is the most convienet platform  among all the social media channels. Here you don’t have to see all the stupid posts & images.

Here the interaction is direct with the user. The only catch on WhatsApp is to check- If you are being added in any stupid group which is passing negative information or posts. You can leave it.

Are you added on many telegrams channels which is on trend these days? Check yourself.

The only intention to say all this is to pass a simple message when you free yourself from unwanted distractions & unproductive things.

You will find out, There is plenty of time available in your day. You can use this time effectively for good things, to reach your goals. It will also make you relax and comfortable.

Expectations Was Not High:

I have covered this a bit few paragraphs above. But, I am talking about it again because that’s important. There is no logic for having any kind of expectation without taking proper actions whether it is small or big doesn’t matter.

You are having high expectations even before taking any kind of action and later from start to end all the time high expectation only. It also makes you feel bad when you don’t get the high expected result.

This was not the case in your childhood days. Try to remember few moments of childhood days and see is there any high expectation present?

Probably not! You won’t find any. This habit has developed when you jump in the life race by comparing with others.

Focus on your actions only and try your best. Don’t expect anything high. The result is always good with proper actions.

Far Away From Hate:

This is one of the most beautiful habits of children which makes them more lovely. They are far away from any kind of hate. They only know to spread love and only love.

Try to remember, Do you ever try to make any difference in childhood days on the basis of politics, religion or physical?

Now! The things has changed, You think you still spread love but never miss any chance to spread hate too on others.

There are millions and billions of people on the planet. It is not possible that everyone with agrees with your opinion. That’s quite natural. People can have different opinions about particular thing.

If someone does not agree with your opinion, You don’t need to hate them. Always try to spread love. Love is the strongest emotion among all other emotions. You can use it for your own good.

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Do you know who will get the best benefit when you try to spread love? Obviously! It’s you only, when you spread love to others, it will come back to you. This will make you happy & energetic too.

When you try to spread hate, The result is also similar. Who will get more loss? Obviously! you, It will hit you at the same speed and make you feel angry & frustrated.  You will be left with no energy and motivation to do any other good things.

TIP– The key to getting love from the people is to spread love. It will also make the environment and society full of love and respect.

Strong Wish To Fulfil Desire:

There was a strong desire to get anything of your choice at childhood age. Remember those days when you tried to fight with your parents for toys & gifts and got successful at the last because of only one powerful weapon “Cry”.

Now! Your wish or desire energy level is not the same and has reduced a lot. Although, Now! you have more energy, intelligence, intellect, and maturity as compared to Once upon a child.

The main reason for this is simple if you try to give attention you will understand.

At childhood age! Once upon a child, You were focused was high and the same. Let, say once a child has demanded a helicopter toy. Now! Once child wants helicopter toy means only helicopter toy and not any alternative- flowers, chocolates etc

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Now! Look at yourself, If you wish for achieving any goal. You start looking for shortcuts or any other alternative way without even taking proper actions.  

The other main reason is that in childhood days, you were not having any kind of distraction that can move your focused toward other side.

Now! the thing is different you have created your own distractions (Internet, Social Media, Smartphones, Tv etc) from all different sides which wipes away all your energy and makes you un-focused.

The key is simple to bring back the same level of energy & desire. Don’t get afraid by thinking about the past results. Start the beginning after the end of those experiences. Be focused, keep things easy & simple, and remove all the distractions.

Do not get engage with any unwanted activity.

Once Upon A Child:

These were some of the main reasons which rob your happiness & pleasure which you used to get Once Upon A Child. I hope you like this post and it would be helpful for you to bring back those memories which were present Once Upon A Child and you will try to live happily like those days as you were living once upon a child.

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8 Simple Steps To Change Your Life In 45 Days From Today

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Do you know you can improve your life in 45 days from today ? Isn’t that exciting, Yes! definitely! and what is more interesting? You will be amazed to know, It is quite possible and also easy to follow.

45 Days From Today:

Let’s unlock those wonderful ways to change your life in 45 days from today.

Life keeps on moving forward without waiting for you. Usually, You keep missing many important things while speeding up for this race called life.

How many times you have decided to change yourself for the better? Haven’t you notice that you have broken the promise many times to follow your goals?

Why does it happen? You have decided to do something good and also make the promise for it but still you keep breaking it like a glass.

Today! In this post you will be going to know the real reason and what else? You‘ll unlock the golden ways to make progress within 45 days from today or even before.

It’s too exciting to know where you can make a change only in just 45 days from today. Yes! It is awesome. Stay tuned to the post and read till last to understand.

45 Days From Now:

You are going to unlock simple and wonderful ways which can improve your life in 45 days from now when follow it correctly.

The good news is these steps are literally simple and you can follow it anytime even from today. Everyday Is The Beginning After The End,

Let’s move forward to the post and unlock it.

1. Why are you lost and distracted ?

Before doing anything! First and foremost you highly need to know the real reason, why do you become quite lost, confused or distracted ?

Does it seem difficult to find out the reason? Obviously not! In fact, It is the most important thing which you can’t ignore.

How can you make progress without knowing the clear reason to tackle?

Ask yourself,

  • Why am I not taking actions?
  • Why am I getting stuck?
  • Who’s stopping me?

The more questions you would ask yourself, The more in-depth you would be going to reach. It will give you clarity where you can successfully find the real reason.

Then! Here comes the next step to take action accordingly. Don’t skip this step as It is the most crucial & foundation step for progress.

Life Can Only Be Understood Backwards

2. Save Your Time:

Time is the most valuable & powerful asset. Either you can make it or break it. No doubt! Time reacts in a similar manner.

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If you try to make the time productive & useful, Time will also return you the favor by rewards and gifts.

On the other hand, when you are not concern about your time and throwing it here and there. Time will also not going to like you and won’t be going to give you any treat.

In today’s internet age! It has become a common habit of yours to easily get distracted. How much time you are spending on social media (Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Youtube) or anywhere else watching movies, web-series.

Does spending time on social media or watching entertaining videos is helping you to achieve your goals? If not, then why are you keenly get active over there?

Here! I am giving you the most simple solution to save your time. It will definitely help you to save your valuable time.

You may have read articles or watched the videos to improve your time management in the past. Those tips seem too difficult or boring to implement and nothing has worked. Right?

Here! is the most simple and easiest way which you can follow anytime. In fact, today will be a great start.

Yes! It is easy but you have to make a tiny effort, Take a pen & paper. Write the things which you need to do tomorrow.

Don’t write a long list OR each and everything. It will make you frustrated & bored. Only write few things which are important and you need to do for tomorrow.

Make a To-Do list in advance at the night for the next day.

Here! I repeat once more, The list needs to be simple and must have only a few things 4-5 or maybe 6 which are important & possible to do in reality.

This won’t be the timetable which school students generally made. Like-

  • 8 AM- Bath,
  • 4 PM- Play
  • 8 PM- Dinner etc.

In fact, The time-bound timetable does not help much and makes you stuck & sometimes creates extra pressure which can make you frustrated.

The key is to make things simple & easy which ‘ll help you to do the things easily without any extra stress.

3. Protect Yourself:

You want to achieve many good things in life for which you are also ready to give your 100% efforts.

Okay! tell me, Do you know where the picture arrive first whatever you want to achieve?

It’s in your mind, Thoughts are the things. First, the picture gets created in your mind as thoughts. Once you like it, You grab the idea and it motivates you to go for it.

You take action but at the same time, what’s more important?

You need to protect yourself from the negative things all around, It can be your own negative thoughts or maybe the negative comment of your friends or negative opinion was given by someone.

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Negativity is all dangerous, You need to protect yourself from the negativity. Negativity is all dream killer.

Most of the people don’t take any action for the goals which they want to achieve only for 2 reason.

  1. Either they are scared
  2. They think what if they get failed?

Both are negative thinking which does not let them take any action for their goals. Well, success and failures come later.

You only need to focus on the process. The focus should be on the small steps which you can do on regular basis. When steps are all right, It will definitely make you close towards the goals.

What would happen during the process? Either you get successful or you will get failed and going to learn. Both are fair deal. If you get failed, there is a high chance to learn from your mistakes and try again for the better.

When you don’t take any action there is not even a tiny chance to improve and you will never going to unlock opportunities.

That’s why! It is most important to protect yourself from all kinds of negativity. Here is the important TIP- Outside negativity doesn’t affect much as your own negative thoughts hit you. Believe in yourself and be positive.

When you have ponder the positivity to your thoughts, Negativity comes from outside won’t be going to bother you much.

4. Build Good Habits:

The actions which you take on a regular basis finally creates the result. What does it mean? Obviously! You are the result of your habits.

Now! This is no brainer for good results you need to adopt good habits and similarly bad habits push you towards the bad result.

But, I guess you don’t want bad results, In fact! No one wants. But, still you have to see some bad outcomes. Why? This is because of your habits

When you are engaged in bad habits, How can you see the good result? Get engage yourself towards good habits, It will definitely makes you peaceful, happy, focus and goal oriented.

Isn’t it simple good habits start attracting good results? Obviously! It is awesome and great deal which you don’t need to ignore for your own progress & development.

This is truly a cheap price where you can get massive return. Are you wondering, I don’t have any bad habits then why am I not getting good result? Well, It’s surprise to know! there are many bad habits which doesn’t seem bad at all.

Here are few examples of those bad habits- Watching videos over internet for couple of hours or Stay active on internet, social media for N number of hours without any reason. Are you planning your day? Not managing your time properly is also a similar habit.

Good habits seem hard in initial days, later on it becomes easy and after sometime you start enjoying these habits.

Here are the example of some good habits:

Wake Up Early:

To wake up early in the morning is definitely one of the best habit. There are many benefits of waking up early in the morning.

  • It makes you focused,
  • You get some extra time where you can work a little more for your goals.
  • It is also good for health and so on.

Exercise:

You already know very well. Doing exercise is good for your health. Still, you ignore it. Good health is the most important. When you are healthy only then you can be happy & connected.

Exercise helps you in different ways:

  • It burns your extra calories, r
  • Release stress,
  • Gives you happy signals,
  • Helps you to become active and fit.

Develop a habit of doing exercise at early in the morning on regular basis and see the difference by yourself.

Reading Books:

Reading books is also one of the most productive and effective habit. There is one most common habit among all the successful people i.e “Reading Books”

It is also been said that- “Readers are leaders” When you read a good book, You are not only reading a book 200-250 pages rather you are reading years of experiences from the author.  

The author ponders years of experience & intellectual in those pages. What if you can read 1,2 books a month. It will 20-25 books a year.

What after 2, 3 years? Don’t you see how much potential knowledge, Intellectual and experience you will be going to get in such a short term?

Books directly get connected to your mind, when you read many positive things from the book. Definitely! it makes your mind positive & confident which also results in positive actions..

Similarly! When you got to engage in negative things, Like- watching negative kinds of news, Negative gossips etc it will throw your mind towards negativity which won’t help you in any way other than bad.

Garbage in garbage out

So which is good habit negative or positive? Of course! Positive is only the way to go.

Books help you to be positive & connected. There is only one catch while choosing the books. Don’t pick just any book for the sake of reading.

You need to be careful while choosing for the books otherwise it won’t going to help you much.

Don’t pick any books like comics, jokes, love stories, entertaining, I don’t mean these books are bad I only want to say, these books are only for the time pass and don’t provide you good information, feedback, positive mindset and other useful tips for your progress.

Read some self-help books.

5. Set Small Goals:

This one is interesting, You often get confused about whether to make big goals or small goals. Big goals are quite exciting and small goals don’t seem much interesting.

Also, there are different statement moving around from the success guru’s. They say go for big goals, some also say go for small goals.

I can understand all these different kind of information overwhelmed you and sometimes makes you irritated too.

Don’t worry! Today I am going to clear all your confusion.

The goals always need to be as big as your dream. There is not any limit to set your dream. Don’t limit yourself while seeing the dream.

Take a pen and paper and write dreams on it whatever you wish for. Once the dream is decided you can set small goals in between the way which can take to go towards the big dream.

Still, confused? Okay! Let me give you a simple example that will help you to understand better. Let say, I want to read a book which contains 250 pages.

Can I read 250 pages in one go? Obviously not, So! I have made the goal to read 50 pages each day. So, It will help me to get finished the book in the next 5 days.

50 pages are fine to me. If not 50 then 30 or maybe 20, It’s fine. 20 pages would still help me to finish the book in the next 12 days.

Something is better than nothing. What most of the time happens when setting a big goal? You didn’t focus on small goals which come along the way in between reaching the big goal.

So, That big goal seems too difficult and makes you scared, and later results in quit taking action for the goal, and move back towards the comfort zone.

Achieve big goals become quite easy and exciting when you break in between small goals. Don’t you see at the above example how easy it is only to read 20 pages a day which can still help me to complete the book?

6. Follow Discipline:

There can be many good habits which you can follow for the progress & development. But, there is only one habit that comes at the top of all. that is “Discipline”

Discipline helps you to stay on the track and take continuous efforts. You always try to get motivation from others in the form of videos, news or articles.

You need to understand, Motivation is only a temporary factor that can’t last long even after a few hours or sometimes even a couple of minutes later it will get wiped out from your mind.

How many times does it happen when you watch a video, you got a lot of motivation from the video and became energetic after watching it, what has happened after that?

Does it give you any benefit? Probably not! Because motivation is only for short period. How can you become motivated by other stories? On The Road To Success There Are No Shortcuts

The real motivation comes from inside within yourself. Don’t look for external motivation. Get motivation from your heart.

Set your goals and learn how to develop self discipline to reach your goals. You will see how motivation will start blowing at your mind and then you won’t require any external kind of motivation.

7. Control Your Mind:

You are driving the car at 100 Km/hour and when you don’t control the car what would happen? Similarly, you need to control your mind too.

The mind has the habit to fly here and there. It does not the difference between long-term goals and happiness.

It only keeps looking for something fun only at the present, Let say! You are working for something important and your mind demand for something fun i.e watch any movies or songs etc.

What can you do now? You can simply ignore it and get focus on the work which can help you to complete the work on time. Because that is much important.

What would happen if you do not control your mind and approve the request? Your work gets pending where you have another work too.

It will become overburden and start creating stress, You won’t find peace and it will wiped your happiness and makes you frustrated so on and so forth.

It’s better to control your mind for the progress and to save yourself from all these bad experiences.

8. Reward Yourself:

Here comes the most exciting part to get rewards. You like to have rewards? Obviously! Who doesn’t?

Your mind is like your friend, you need to care, appreciate and love it. Mind is much fond of rewards & gifts rather than working hard for your goals.

To be honest, Mind doesn’t care whether you are working hard for your goals to get long-term happiness and success. All it wants to get something fun at the present and not later.

You need to control your mind. What you can do is once you successfully complete the small goals. Reward yourself for the fun.

You can take break for the rest or you can do any fun activity.

You would become your mind best friend if you take care of it and pass rewards and gifts instead of overburden yourself with the load of work.

Keep giving balance and proper rewards to your mind. So! It can help you more for the work to make progress.

45 Days Ago From Today:

You have seen your life 45 days ago from today. Do you see any progress or improvement during that time?

Don’t worry! You can follow these simple ways and you will be going to see a lot of good change within 45 days from now or even before 45 days. You will definitely start seeing good results from 1st week itself. It won’t be the same as 45 days ago from today.

45 Days From Today

You have seen the life 45 days before today, Now! you are going to see the next 45 days from today. Do you want to make the next 45 days from today better than 45 days before today?

Are you ready to take the responsibility to make the change for good that can improve your life in 45 days from today? So! It won’t remain the same as 45 days ago from today.

In fact, 45 days from now is a pretty fair deal. Isn’t it awesome where you can improve life in just 45 days from today?

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7 Ways That Nobody Tell You How To Live A Simple Life

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Do you know how to live a simple life? A simple life is easy to live and makes you peaceful. In Today’s life, You have made your life such complicated which results in anxiety & stress.

You can also live a life in a simple & happy way. In this post, you’ll get to know How to live a simple life easily without any extra effort.

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11 Most Simple Ways To Learn Self Discipline In Life

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There could be many reasons for the success of a person’s life. But, there is one common thing which can be found among all the successful people which is other than discipline. They all are disciplined and mastered it in their life.

Are you disciplined in life? If not then it is one of the major reason you are not making any progress in life and also creating a lot of stress for yourself.

Today! I am going to reveal 11 most simple ways how to develop self discipline. You will also be going to learn, how to master self discipline in your life to see the magic.

Before proceeding further, I would like to share a few things with regard to discipline. Yes! that’s correct discipline is not at all easy to implement in life & requires lot of dedication and patience.

But, It is all truly worth and this is how you can go to make a difference from the rest of the people living in mediocrity. If you being honest implement discipline in life. You can make good progress in life and achieve big things.

Don’t you want to see all your dreams and goals become true? How about seeing a better life in the future?

It can become reality & easy when you start discipline in life. This is why it is important to learn how to develop self discipline.

How To Develop Self Discipline:

Everyone not born with this quality rather they develop in life only. So, you don’t need to worry much about it. If they have learned to develop discipline in life. You can too learn it. Are you ready to learn this art?

Here are 11 secrets how to develop self discipline

1) Accept Your Responsibilty:

You need to accept whatever is happening in your life it is solely because of you. If anyhow your life is not on the right track and something is missing or nothing is going right. It’s because of your past actions.

The actions or decision which you have taken in the past is giving back you the result. Are you feeling regret about something in the past?

You don’t need to feel regret as it’s not going to solve your present problems rather it would make circumstances more complicated. Stop now! If you are wasting your valuable time regretting the past.

You are missing the beautiful moments of the present and not looking at positive aspects.

You can’t change your past, The only thing which is in your total control is the present and You can make great out of it. When you make effort in the present not only it would give a better result in the present. It would also help to make your future beautiful.

Forget about the past, Learn from your mistakes, and move ahead whether you want it or not. This is the only way to make better progress.

Awesome future is waiting for you if you too are ready.

2) Find Out Why:

Do you want to know why some people are too disciplined and others are truly bad with it? This is because those people are focused and have clarity about their actions. They have a better idea about their goals and required actions to achieve it.

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They don’t feel laziness and even don’t need any kind of external motivation to get disciplined. Their goals made them disciplined. It is as simple.

Now! When you too want to be disciplined and looking for the way about it. First, you need to find your why?

Ask yourself, why do you want to disciplined?

  • Do you want to get good marks in the class?
  • Do you want to earn more money?
  • Are you willing to improve your health?
  • Do you want to get more free time to enjoy or spend with family?
  • Do you want to make progress in life?

When you ask yourself, you will get a better answer.

Now! keep this in your mind why do you want to discipline? It is because you want to achieve that particular goal? It would always inspire you to be disciplined without any external motivational resources.

3) Don’t Break The Chain:

There are times when you feel quite excited and motivated and start thinking, This time I am going to rock. I will implement good habits on daily basis.

  • Wake up early,
  • Exercise
  • Reading books etc

But nothing works or the momentum gets there only for a few days. After some days, you are back to the stage from where you have started.

Do you want to learn the most simple and effective way to build discipline in life?

Take paper and pen write about the things for which you wants to be disciplined. Let say! You want to read a book.

Start reading a book and don’t overburden yourself. If you are done with even only 2-3 page that’s perfectly fine to start with.

Once you have completed reading those 2-3 pages, Put a tick on the page. Don’t forget to do the same tomorrow. No matter, whether you read 2,3, or 5 pages. You only need to do it, Keep things simple.

On the 3rd day do the same. Keep doing this for 10,12,15 days. Now! You will see there are many ticks on the page.

Now! Your mind will start to accept this routine and It is no more burden to you. It will become fun to put a tick mark on a daily basis.

The ticks will keep growing and your mind won’t wish to break this. You need to be careful about it.

Don’t break the chain and keep going. This is how simple you can build a positive discipline about something.

4) Kick Out Disturbance:

It is easy to say rather being following it effectively, You always engaged yourself with any kind of activity which is of no need and takes your lot of time. You need to be aware of it and kick out all the disturbance which gives no value.

Let say! You have set a goal to study for 2 hours, Suddenly you see a notification on your mobile and start checking it and find a message from one of your friend who is saying- “Hi”

You haven’t stop yourself and replied back Hi, how are you doing? This is how the conversation has started and ended up after 30 mins. You have planned to study for 2 hours.

Now! 30 minutes is already gone and It is not about time only. Your energy would also get decreased and you do not feel focused anymore.

You won’t feel like doing your studies. That’s why It is more important to clear from every kind of distraction which can help you to be focused and energetic.

There is nothing wrong to talk with your friend as given example above. You can connect them anytime later in your free time. The most important is when you have set a goal, Let it complete first and be honest to yourself.

5) Stop Complaining:

Have you ever noticed? Complain has become a part of your life. You always try to complaining about everything i.e family, others, situations or even yourself.

How can you focused on good things when you only keep swimming in complaining pool?

Come out from it and look at the positive side. There is always a chance for improvement. If something wrong has happened try to look at another side what you can do to make improvements.

Trust me, You would find a way and realize how easy it was. Stop doing complains and take a responsibly to make improvements.

6) Understand The Reality:

You need to understand this reality. Do you think the people who are much successful and seems disciplined are always disciplined in their life?

No! It s not and it is truly hard to follow discipline without breaking it. There can be hardly a small group of such people.

But, there is a key! Those successful people who break the discipline. They come back to their discipline cycle very quickly instead of taking a lot of time.

How many times it has happened to you when you have tried to make a discipline about something? You start doing it for some days, weeks and somehow you have broken this cycle and later on, never came back to the cycle again.

This was the point where you got missed. Don’t be rude to yourself and put a burden. If you trying to follow the discipline and somehow get distracted you can come back later. There is nothing wrong to join that cycle again.

In fact, You need to get back quickly as soon as possible with your discipline without wasting your time and thinking lot about useless things.

7) Clarity Is The Key:

This is the quite simple to do but you never pay attentions towards it which becomes major obstacle when it comes to follow discipline.

Are you always clear about your daily activities? Probably not! That’s why It is recommended to give at least 10 minutes at night. If you want to make your next 24 hours of the day productive and better.

Isn’t it simple to invest only 10 minutes to make 24 hours fruitful? Now! you must be thinking What can you do is in those 10 minutes?

You can analyze your day. How was your day, look at the mistakes and if there is something wrong, look at the opportunities to improve.

Make a plan for the next day. Write down all the important activities which you want to do for tomorrow and Make a “To-Do list“. It would give you complete clarity for the next day. It will help you a lot to maintain discipline.

Do this everyday and don’t delay on this. Starts from today.

8) Power Of Practice:

You must have heard about this famous phrase: Practices make a person perfect. There is no doubt about it. At the start, everything seems quite difficult or strange.

Once you start doing it on a regular basis. It becomes truly easy. There is no doubt you would feel so challenging when you initially start to maintain discipline in the life.

You will also find yourself in a position where your heart will say. Stop doing this, why are you putting burden on yourself. Let’s have some fun.

Now, what can you do is, Think about the goals for which you have started to follow discipline. It will give you the energy to focus & make you feel better. Keep doing practice to develop the discipline.

Don’t ignore the power of practice. It is only challenging & scary in the beginning not later.

9) Don’t Wait For Perfect Times:

Perfect time is an overestimated subject. How many times do you wait for a perfect time and it came? There is no perfect time in reality.

The best time to start was yesterday and Now it is this “moment, Don’t wait for the perfect times and start now.

Once you started to follow discipline in life. You would literally realize it was the best decision which you took to improve your life for the better.

10) Take Breaks And Reward Yourself:

Discipline is not about getting hard on yourself rather it is about enjoying the journey and making progress at the same time.

Also takes proper breaks to relax and reward yourself for the fun. Keep good balance about everything.

The true fact is if you put overburden on yourself to follow the discipline, you can’t be able to go with it for more than a few days.

Keep things simple and easy. Also, be careful breaks or fun, Don’t take much time and affect your discipline routine.

11) Be Kind To YourSelf:

Life is full of uncertainties, You don’t know what is going to happen next? There will be many ups and downs that come along the way which can make you sad, angry, frustrated which is going to help you to build discipline.

If you break the discipline cycle, Don’t get angry with yourself and be kind. You have to come back as soon as possible.

The longer you put yourself off from discipline cycle. The harder it will become to come back.

How To Develop Self Discipline:

These were 11 most simple ways, how to develop self discipline. I believe you like this post and these ways would be helpful for you to develop self discipline in life.

Self discipline is important in the life and it’s not as hard to follow as you think. Try these ways how to develop self discipline and see yourself to get better & make progress.

Have you ever try to develop self discipline in life and what were challenges did you face? What is your biggest motivation to develop self discipline?

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