Confidence plays an important role in your growth & progress. It is most important which is required almost everywhere. Are you a confident person or sometimes you may feel lack of confidence?
In this post, I am going to reveal the secret How to build confidence and self-esteem. If you follow these steps you won’t ever feel lack of confidence.
How To Build Confidence And Self-Esteem:
Here are 9 powerful steps which will help you to build confidence and self-esteem. Are you with me? Let’s unlock these awesome ways for you to boost confidence.
1) Don’t Compare With Others:
Never try to compare yourself with any other person. No matter who are they? When you compare yourself with others. It doesn’t only get end over here rather it starts throwing negative energy on you which would obviously make you demotivated and low confident.
Do you want to be confident or not? So, you need to stop these bad habit. Learning from others is a good habit & positive approach. It helps you to get some knowledge. But, The problem starts when you start comparing with others and try to humiliate yourself.
Never do this, Don’t ignore your worth. You are an amazing and having great potential. Just need to figure it out. You can achieve big things in life when you do focus on right things.
2) Positive Talks:
You always try to talk with others. It may be anyone
- Family
- Friends
- Relatives
- Neighbor
- Relatives OR
- Stranger
Do you ever get sometime & try to talk with yourself? If yes, then what kind of talk is that? Do you motivate yourself for challenges & to make improvements or you throw negativity comments towards yourself to discourage. Like-
- You are good for nothing.
- You can’t do anything.
- Every other person is better than you etc
Don’t throw negative comment on yourself rather try to talk in a positive manner. Give new ideas, feedback to your mind and also encourage to do better.
Believe me, You can take me on this. Once you started doing this you will truly enjoy and also notice how powerful this habit is? By doing so! you can unlock many hidden ways to make progress.
Give sometime to yourself for a great talk as you give time to other’s.
3) Take Help Of Affirmations:
Affirmation is a powerful strategy which helps you to build confidence. Are you feeling bit confused and thinking what is affirmation?
Affirmation is repetition of positive thoughts in your mind with a belief. Let say, You are not good in studies or sports. You do feel low confident about this.
Now, You can boost your confidence with the help of positive affirmation.
- I am smart
- Nothing is difficult
- I am amazing
- I am truly awesome etc
When you start repeating such thoughts in your mind with a belief. Yes! you also need to believe on it. It will not only boost your confidence but also going to motivates you to take proper actions. It would help you to unlock your true potential.
4) Visualize Yourself:
Visualize is a simple way to create images in your mind where you do want to reach. If you are a student. Visualize yourself as you got the result and having good marks.
Are you going for a job interview? Visualize yourself with interviewer who is asking questions and you are giving answer to each question in a positive way and finally got offer letter in your hand.
If you are doing business visualize yourself to see great profits from it. Visualization is a simple and powerful strategy to boost your confidence.
5) Be Disciplined:
Discipline is the key to confidence. If you are having discipline obviously it would boost your confidence.
Let say! You are in a new class at school or college. You want to achieve good marks. So! To achieve good marks you need to be disciplined for regular studies.
When you start doing regular studies for few days or weeks. It will definitely help you in a better learning and understanding of subjects. It will obviously make you confident towards study.
In the same manner, You become discipline with any field or work and can help yourself to boost the confidence. Try yourself & see amazing result.
6) Make Goals:
When you have goals it one of the best way to build confidence. You don’t need anything else. Goal itself motivate you to take action with confidence. Don’t miss to make short terms & long term goals which you needs to accomplish.
Goals always don’t refer of being long term. A goal also can be of
- Weekly
- Monthly
- Quarterly OR
- Yearly.
No goals leads to laziness and procrastination. Once you make clear goals. Now, you have to take proper actions to achieve that goal. This is no brainier proper actions improves confidence.
7) Good Dressing:
When you dress well and looks good. It make you feel better and confident from outside . You receive good signal about your looks & personality. Receiving good signals from outside helps to boost your inner confidence.
8) Avoid Stupid Arguments:
Stupid arguments are the worst way to invest your time and energy. It doesn’t make any sense to get engage with such stuffs.
Let me ask is it worth to spend valuable time into useless talk or illogical gossips?. It can be related to any topic likes-
- Movies
- Politics
- Sports OR
- Any other
Where both the party got warm and don’t even want to listen other. It is like you are driving a car without brakes.
Isn’t so risky and dangerous?
Same goes with such stupid arguments. Here you will risk your time & energy without any reason. Okay! tell me, How it would be when you were arguing with friend, family or any person and they don’t even want to listen?.
Don’t you get frustrated or angry? Yes! definitely and It will result in loosing the confidence. Your time is so valuable. Invest it only on worthy area’s.
9) Check Your Circle:
Circle plays an important role in your overall personality. If you are having good friend circle who keeps motivate you and also share knowledge, good ideas with you.
It is good sign you are having a good circle. In this scenario you will never be going to feel lack of confidence. You have a circle who helps you to boost the confidence.
Now! look at other side, If you are having kind of circle who always try to demotivate you and never miss a chance to make fun of yours intentionally or intentionally. They are always forward to pass such pathetic comments.
- You can’t do anything in life.
- There are many people like you.
- You are not smart.
- Let me see you if you get success, I bet you won’t OR
- You won’t be able to fulfill your dreams in life
- Any other negative comments
How can you be able to be confident? No! It would become difficult. Now! what you can do in this case? It is simple, Try to be maintain distance with those people.
Making distance doesn’t mean you need to make physical distance from them. No! it’s not, no need to do that. In fact, how it is even possible if someone is passing negative comments from your family?
You can’t make distance with them. Here what I mean to say make distance from them on mentally level. Don’t think much about those negative comments. Don’t give focus on those negative thoughts it will discourage you.
Yes! If there is something good in those negative comments, take it as a feedback and try to improve. It would definitely going to be helpful.
How To Build Confidence And Self-Esteem:
In this post, you have read How to build confidence and self-esteem with these 9 simple and powerful ways. I hope you do like this post and it would be helpful for you.
What’s you best strategy to build confidence? How often do you feel lack of confidence and what’s you do to boost confidence?
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