Things will get better no matter even if there are many ups and downs in life. Sometimes, Life does not move as per your choice. Life is full of mystery. If you are currently struggling with life and not doing well. Feeling stressed, demotivated, and hopeless. Don’t worry! things will get better.
Things Will Get Better:
This post is for you, Just to make you understand Things will get better. Don’t lose hope and keep a smile on your face.
1) A Simple Rule:
First, you need to understand this simple rule of life, Let say! You have Rs 1,440 in the wallet. Somehow, you lost Rs 50 from it.
What will you going to do? Would you become sad the whole day?
Because you have lost Rs 50 from the total amount and left with Rs 1.390 Or you will give simple thought to yourself. That’s fine! I have only lost a tiny amount and there is nothing to worry about.
I know, you will go with the 2nd option.
Let me ask you, Then why don’t follow this rule, when it comes about time? I think you don’t understand.
You have 1,440 minutes in a day. Time is also valuable. In fact, It is much more valuable than money.
So, Why are you not much concern about time?
If something bad has happened for a couple of minutes. It may be anything
- Bad conversation with your friend,
- Fighting with someone,
- Punishment etc
Why do you spend rest of the day in a bad mood or frustrated? You don’t have to be this way.
It has passed. Now! You have rest of the day & night left. Spend it wisely instead of wasting it. Time is the most valuable. Don’t underestimate it.
2) You Are Not ALone:
Yes! It can’t be ignored, you have some bad experience for which you are feeling sad, demotivated, or upset.
Here is the hard truth, “Everyone has low points in life“. The real win is not to escape yourself from failures.
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The success starts when you get to fall down many times in life and still do the courage to move forward. That’s a real win for sure.
Don’t feel regret about your past mistakes, experience, etc. It has given you the opportunity to learn. To understand the different phases of life much better.
It has made you an intellectual and strong person. Look at other side, Count it.
3) Wonderful Life Is Waiting Ahead:
A happy wonderful life is waiting for you. If you are ready for it. Think about yourself, your family, friends, loved one’s.
There is so much to do. Life will be beautiful If you are ready to take the charge. Why are you feeling like a looser only because of some bad experiences.
Think like a kid, What were the things which you want to do in your childhood days?
- Is it travelling,
- Meeting with friends,
- Playing games Or
- Anything else
Try to do those things and you will fee better.
4) Keep Yourself Happy:
This is one of the most under-rated subject. You will get tons of advice from the people. like:
- Set a goal
- Make a plan etc.
But, To be honest in reality, that doesn’t work. Don’t get me wrong! It is not meant to say these tips are worthless.
Yes! There is no doubt, goal setting & making plans are most important steps for progress and You must do it.
Here is the important thing which you missed to understand. This only works when you are happy from inside.
Yes! You got me. If you are happy, you can do each thing happily with energetic attitude.
If somehow! You are locked in depression and being upset. You can’t be able to go for long. Firstly, you won’t start & secondly if you started to take the actions. you won’t go further other than a few days.
You know why? Because! You were not happy, Just trying to push yourself which is not a real solution.
The only thing which you can do and which provides the best solution. Keep yourself happy. What makes you happy?
You can connect with your family, dear, and loved ones. Share your problems and thoughts with them if something is wrong and you would feel much better.
Whenever you are happy, Don’t you ever notice everything becomes good?
5) Don’t Regret Past:
This is the biggest mistake which you made on a daily basis. You kept making regret for the past mistakes, experiences.
Do you know? This is one of the major obstacles in your progress. You are stuck in life because you are not trying to come to the present situation.
You are not realizing how much loss you are facing due to it. Come out from the past regret zone and get into the present to see an awesome future.
Everyone makes mistakes, you are not alone. The mistake which you are making is not overcoming the past regret.
6) Love These Moments:
Past is gone, the future will come. The present where you living are beautiful moments of life which you are not going to live again.
Love these moments, Enjoy them and live it to the fullest. So, you don’t have to regret in the future. Count every moment.
7) Explore Opportunities:
There are always many opportunities available to make progress. In today’s world, there is no lack of opportunity in every area.
You need to look for it, Don’t get disappointed while facing small failure and go ahead to find more opportunity to achieve big.
8) Make Goals:
Goals are most important, They give you the reason to move forward. When you have goals, you can easily track your performance and progress. While chasing your goals you feel energetic and getting them gives you a great feeling of accomplishment.
If you don’t have any goals at this moment? Try to make some goals. The goals are not only for long term. You often misunderstood goals. You can also make short term goals.
A goal also can be:
- Yearly,
- Monthly
- Weekly Or
- Daily
9) It’s Never Too Late:
The past is gone and It can’t be changed now. The only thing which you can control is now. Don’t let your mind control you. You have to control your mind.
I know, this sounds easy to be said than done. Although, it’s not much difficult. This is true when you try to make some positive changes in your life. Lots of negative thoughts start arising in your mind to push you back.
- You have wasted a lot of time.
- It is too late
- Now, It is not worth etc
But, the fact is You’re never too late. Until you are alive, you have full control to take actions for the good.
See the stories of some most successful people in the world to understand, you’re not too late.
One of the most famous business entrepreneur, Jack Ma has faced so many failures before starting the company “Alibaba” at the age of 35 years. At that time, He was nothing. Now! He is the richest person of china.
KFC founder Colonel Sanders started one of the biggest food chain company in the world at the age of 62.
There are many more similar stories, You can read about them to take inspiration. Just to make you understand. You’re not too late to make a fresh start.
Come out from your comfort zone, Comfort zone is the trap. Take charges of your life and see how beautiful the life is.
10) Discipline Is Goldmine:
Things will get better only when you try for it. The major reason you are not going well is because you are not following discipline. That’s why! You feel quite distracted all the time.
If you want to make the most out of your time. You need to develop discipline, It will make you easy, and Believe me once you start following the discipline things will improve better.
Things Will Get Better Soon:
This was just a simple post to tell, Don’t get discouraged by yourself. Don’t lose hope, things will get better.
Move ahead in your life and don’t forget to smile. Life is too short to overthink. I believe you would like this post and it will be helpful. Be happy! don’t think too much things will get better.
What do you think are the major reasons to get stuck in life? Have you ever regret for the past mistakes?